Here are some resources that may be useful to you.

Unschooling:

A new book hot off the press in January 2012, "Homeschooling: Why and How" by Gail Nagasako. It's a personal story of Gail unschooling her son, along with a how-to guide and helpful questionnaire to get you on the right track.                                                                   http://www.homeschoolingwhyandhow.com 

http://www.unschooling.org

To find out what your state laws on homeschooling and private schools are, please visit:

http://homeschooling.gomilpitas.com/directory/Legalities.htm

For an overview of laws in each state:

http://education.uslegal.com/homeschooling/homeschooling-laws-by-state/

Frequently Asked Questions about Homeschooling

http://homeedmag.com/faq.php

Other related resources:

Natural Moms Talk Radio: Learn to trust your mothering instincts. Listen to podcasts on homeschooling, unschooling, learning styles and more!

http://www.naturalmomstalkradio.com/blog/

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/relaxedhomeskool/2008/10/06/relaxed-homeschooler-6